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a priest, deacon, or religious? Ask
Fr. Brian
What exactly is a "vocation"?
A vocation is God's invitation or calling
to each person to love and serve Him and His Church in a
particular state or way of life.
PRIESTHOOD
What are the qualities that the Church looks for
in a candidate for the Priesthood?
A good candidate is a practicing, believing
Catholic. He attends Mass at least weekly, prays everyday,
obeys the commandments, and tries to serve others. He must
be mentally, emotionally, and physically healthy. He must
be open to the will of God and willing to learn and grow.
Do you have these qualities?
What is the difference between a diocesan priest
and a religious priest?
A diocesan priest belongs to a body of
priests (called a presbyterate) who are members of the same
diocese and, therefore, under the leadership of the same
bishop.
A religious order priest belongs to a specific congregation
or community that is bound together by a common mission.
Unlike diocesan priests, religious order priests take a
vow of poverty and do not own items individually. Most often,
religious order priests specialize in a certain type of
ministry, such as education, social services, health care
or foreign missions.
What vows do diocesan priests make?
Diocesan priests make no vows. For ordination,
they freely make promises of celibacy and obedience to their
bishop.
What a priest, brother or
sister does with his or her day is so varied and complex
that only a sampling can be given here. In
the area of work or ministry, many of us have one main occupation,
such as teaching, parish ministry, social work, or hospital
work, all of which have somewhat regular hours and predictable
demands. The unpredictables
are also interesting and challenging. They center around
meeting the needs of people: the sick, old, angry, hurt,
hungry, imprisoned, excited, happy.
Can priests do anything they want for
recreation and fun?
A priest can do anything
he wants for recreation as long as it is consistent with
the Christian life. Many priests play golf, basketball,
softball, and engage in other sports. Others enjoy movies,
plays, and reading. Some like to watch professional ice
hockey, snorkel, fish, travel, and every other imaginable
entertainment.
How important is prayer in your life?
Because we have chosen a
way of life which says by its very nature that God is most
important, prayer has a central role in our lives. Prayer
is communication with the Lord whom we love and is as necessary
for us as communication is for any two persons who expect
their relationship to continue.
Is prayer always easy for you?
Definitely not! There are
lots of times when we don't feel like doing other things
that are basically important to us; for example, the athlete
doesn't always feel like practicing, a student doesn't always
feel like studying. However, in all the cases mentioned,
because the activity in which we participate is important,
we act on motives deeper than feelings, and do what we know
needs to be done.
How long does it take to become a diocesan
priest?
It takes four years after
college or eight years after high school, the same as for
many professions.
How old do you have to be before you
enter the seminary?
There is no certain age
to start preparing for the priesthood. Some people go to
high school seminaries, others enter the seminary after
high school, after college, or after they have been working
for years.
Because a priest does not have a family
and because he lives a simple life, he does not need a
lot of money. In fact, a priest's black clerical clothes
are an outward sign of the modest standard of living proper
to priestly life and ministry. However, diocesan priests
do receive a salary which enables them to buy their necessities,
to buy and maintain a car, to take a vacation, and to
do normal recreational activities. Also, priests are given
free room and board by the parish for which they work,
so their expenses are minimal.
What is the difference between a sister and a nun?
A sister is a religious woman usually
associated with active and apostolic orders. They work
in the Church and the world, united by community prayer
and a common mission. Religious women in contemplative
orders are known as nuns. These religious communities
serve God through meditation, prayer, and solitude.
Why do some sisters dress in clerical garb or habits
and others do not?
Those who maintain habits today do so
for various reasons. One of the primary reasons is that
religious dress is a sign. The habit is a symbol of faith
in God and commitment to Christianity. Another frequent
rationale for religious garb is that it is simple dress
and therefore a way to live out the vow of poverty. A
sister can own just two or three changes of dress and
be free of the expense that may be involved in a more
extensive contemporary wardrobe.
Some communities have opted to wear street clothes, saying
that the most valid sign of Christian faith is lifestyle,
rather than garb. They contend that religious dress creates
an undesirable barrier between them and laity with whom
they work. Some Catholics and non-Catholics distance themselves
from people in traditional religious dress. Furthermore,
those who have discontinued wearing habits often say the
original reason for it was to wear the dress of the common
people; therefore, street clothes are the common people's
clothes today.
What do sisters do all day?
A Sister's day consists of components
of prayer, ministry, and community. Times of personal
and community prayer are essential in developing a deepening
relationship with Jesus Christ. Liturgical prayer also
keeps a consecrated woman religious connected to the universal
Church. No vocation is given for the sake of the person
herself, so Sisters direct much of their time and energy
toward serving the needs of God's people. Ministries vary
with communities and individuals and include such areas
as pastoral work, education, health care, and social services.
Community life is integral to the vocation of a Sister.
Sisters share support in prayer and ministry as well as
fun and common household tasks.
What kinds of ministry do sisters do?
The choice of ministry for the woman
religious arises from the founding purpose of the community,
a prayerful discernment of her own gifts, and an assessment
within her community of the signs of the times. A woman
religious and her community together look at the needs
of the church and society to determine where best to place
her energies.
The way a particular sister spends her day depends on
the kind of community to which she belongs. Contemplative
nuns often do work to sustain their community in food
and shelter, such as gardening, baking, and handiwork.
Active communities are involved in myriad ministries,
usually with an emphasis on service, such as education,
social work, health care, and parish pastoral work.
How do I know which religious order will be right
for me?
Each religious congregation has a particular
spirit and manner of life. You need to ask yourself where
you will best be able to place your gifts at the service
of the Church and which congregation is best suited to
nurture and challenge you in your relationships with Jesus
Christ and the People of God. Visiting or speaking with
sisters of different congregations is invaluable in learning
more about them.
Do you get time off, and what do you do in that
time?
Sisters have approximately the same amount
of leisure time as most adults. In this time, they are
free to do whatever is legal, moral, and reasonable for
adults in their situation. Obviously, each sister is a
unique individual and her choices of recreation activities
will reflect her personal interests. Some of the more
common choices are sports, movies, reading, sharing time
with friends, watching television, and enjoying the outdoors.
What vows do religious sisters take?
Religious men and women
promise poverty, chastity, and obedience. These vows help
them to be free of earthly attachments and distractions.
They help them to live simply, to be more open to God, and
to depend more on Him. Poverty is the sharing
of possessions in common with the community. Obedience
requires going wherever one is needed and giving oneself
completely in service to God's people. Chastity
is the giving of one's body and soul only to Jesus. It is
the entering into a loving and exclusive relationship with
Him. This frees one to love and serve God and neighbor with
an undivided heart.
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